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If Love Could Think Using Your Mind to Guide Your Heart von Gratch, Alon (eBook)

  • Erscheinungsdatum: 25.10.2005
  • Verlag: Crown Publishing Group
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If Love Could Think

A groundbreaking book about why the one thing we all fearambivalenceis the one thing we must accept to find lasting love.If Love Could Think is an entertaining and practical book that addresses with warmth and intelligence the age-old question relevant to any stage of a relationship: why does love go wrong, and what can we do to make it right?After many years of treating patients with relationship problems, psychologist Alon Gratch has identified seven common patterns of failed love. These patterns include, for example, narcissistic love, when a person has so idealized the partner and the relationship that they cant possibly continue to measure up, one-way love, when a person loves someone who doesnt return that love, triangular love, when a third party, be it a mother, an affair, or a job is involved in the relationship, and forbidden love, the kind of relationship that is generally off-limits, such as when a teacher dates a student. In If Love Could Think, Gratch shows us that all of these patterns stem from one fundamental problemour own ambivalence.With his trademark combination of depth and humor, and using many individual stories as engaging examples, Gratch walks us through the ways we get stuck in these patterns. In each case we are looking for perfect or ideal love. Every pattern creates an obstacle so we dont have to face our own ambivalence about the relationship or the other person. But humans arent perfect, so no matter how wonderful love can be, there is no such thing as pure love. Ambivalence implies the existence not only of love but also of anger, disapproval, or disappointment. As Dr. Gratch shows, there are really only two choices: accept ambivalence as part of any loving relationship, or continue to repeat the patterns of illusory love. Happily, using a simple yet powerful three-step approach, If Love Could Think helps readers to use their own minds to break these patterns of failed relationships and find real and lasting love.From the Hardcover edition.

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    Format: ePUB
    Kopierschutz: AdobeDRM
    Erscheinungsdatum: 25.10.2005
    Sprache: Englisch
    ISBN: 9780307338129
    Verlag: Crown Publishing Group
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